KIRBY CLEMENTS, DEFENSE ATTORNEY: Well, I do have to say that that is -- that`s just crazy what she did. You are having fun in your life now, so it`s time for us to leave." I got a question, maybe I`m just, you know, behind the times. Mary Shieler lives in Oak Hill, West Virginia. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: Oh, yes, like, I`ve got all the time in the world. That`s inexcusable. 46-year old Thomas Montgomery began a spiraling online affair which led to him murdering a love rival and discovering his alleged 18-year-old lover was in fact a 45-year-old woman. SCHROEDER: Well, in talking -- we actually talked with Mary Shieler after all this happened, and I asked her, you know, how -- what were you thinking, and he was her justification for lying online. Jessi's mother, Mary Shieler, answered the door. : When love and affection Goes to Far, Oil Rig Scams: Don't Fall for This Type of Romance Scam, POF Search: 5 Ways to Perform a POF Name Search. Concerned for Jessi's safety, officers were dispatched to her home in Oak Hill, West Virginia. CLEMENTS: No, not legally crazy, but I will -- I will suggest GRACE: She`s stirring the pot, and then it boils over. The point-blank shooting of a 22-year-old young man. I'll just play the game with her,' said Montgomery, whose tragic story has now been turned into a Lifetime Movie directed by 'Friends' Courtney Cox. MARINESNIPER1000: My heart will exist no more after Saturday and will never feel compassion for another person until I die. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: (INAUDIBLE) UNIDENTIFIED MALE: "I wish I had a perfect life like you and Brian do." Facebook. GRACE: That does sound like a crime. And on -- in this case, it`s like you think you`re selling cocaine, but you`re really selling a turnip, all right? Now one man is dead, the other is in jail for 20 years, leaving a broken and humiliated family behind, and Mary Shieler is . That`s when I told her, I`m playing on my dad`s name. GRACE: What`s that? Even after she found out Montgomery was lying to her and Montgomery was 47, she continued to play the game that she was this young, beautiful teenager. Make sure that the file is a photo. And that`s what`s scary about this type of crime. That`s where she belongs, and that`s one of the reasons why we`re on the phone talking, is because I just feel it needs to change. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: I checked out her bio. It was just an on-line flirtation. The "New York Post" reported from the beginning that she took her camera and took pictures of her daughter in compromising positions when her daughter didn`t know that, even up her skirt and sent that via the Internet. What is Mary Shieler's address in Oak Hill, West Virginia? Eventually, Barrett decided to visit 'Jessi' even though Shieler had warned him not to. Learn about how to make the most of a memorial. ", Instant messages recovered from his computer show that the online relationship began to consume Montgomery. To explore more of Mary Shieler's online presence, click here. Over the following year, they talked about love and even marriage while engaging in digital sex. Mary D Shieler is 58 years old. 2 Fayetteville, WV, she was the daughter of the late Lloyd David and Susie Ellen Bailes Shieler. She told her mother who contacted Talhotblond. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: (INAUDIBLE) I was older. https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/154492995/mary-e-neal. You may request to transfer up to 250,000 memorials managed by Find a Grave. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: Oh, look who`s talking. You`re going to bust a gasket. "I kept thinking, well, we're never going to meet. And when they couldn't find Thomas Montgomery, they feared they knew just where he was headed. This is the victim, Brian Barrett, 22 years old, gunned down. His son murdered in this Internet love triangle. : Crazy Catfish Story, Thousands of Fake Facebook Profiles Were Created Using Military Man's Photos, Romance Scam: Millions of Dollars Made From Stolen Pictures of Tristan King. SCHROEDER: Yes. Thomass wife sent Jessi a picture of her family revealing his real age to his teen love interest. JIM AVILA, GEOFF MARTZ and JOANNE NAPOLITANO, Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information. I don`t care what you meant to do. Discover address history, phone, age and more. We collect and match historical records that Ancestry users have contributed to their family trees to create each persons profile. 'I have never felt this way,' Montgomery replied. And in this stack of instant messages, over a dozen times Montgomery begs her. 'She sends me a text message and says, she hates me you should be put in jail for this,' said Montgomery to ABC News. With one single test, you can discover your genetic origins and find family you never know you had. Verify and try again. Mistress of FBI agent arrested for taking Russian money blasts his 'materialistic' WIFE for posting flashy photos in Palm Beach and dining at expensive NYC restaurants after husband walked free, Spain's former king Juan Carlos has a secret aristocrat DAUGHTER and 'took steps to ensure she did not unwittingly fall in love with his son', new book claims, Popping off! Beckwith, Fayette County, West Virginia, USA, Fayetteville, Fayette County, West Virginia, USA. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: "Jessi, enclosed you will find a picture of my family. BARBARA SCHROEDER, PRODUCED FILM ON CASE THAT INCLUDES INTERVIEW WITH KILLER: Hi, Nancy. It wasnt a coincidence that he worked with children at his church and used minors gaming chat. TALHOTBLONDBIG50: I know. But there`s just one problem. So I figured I`ll talk back to her. Mary Shieler - Oak Hill, WV Get Full Report. 04/03/1947 - 06/27/2016 . He is moving to West Virginia to be with the love of his life.. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: "I will get out of your life, Tom. Mary B Shieler, age 61 (304) 661-**** You can customize the cemeteries you volunteer for by selecting or deselecting below. Little did he know that tallhotblond was only playing with his emotions as she would waffle back and forth between communicating with him and pursuing Brian. GRACE: OK. Quickly see who the memorial is for and when they lived and died and where they are buried. That`s a whole another can of worms. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: Tallhotblond. It should have never happened. Aug. 27, 2011 — -- The Internet is known as a breeding ground for illicit affairs between people often hiding behind fake names and handles. Oops, we were unable to send the email. Telling her what had happened and how they desperately needed to speak to Jessi, Shieler broke down in a wail of tears and confessed her whole elaborate deception of Montgomery and Barrett. And that`s why they got caught up in this fantasy and their fantasies is fell in love with each other. So -- SCHROEDER: Incredible excuse. Mary B Shieler, 61 Resides in Ronceverte, WV Lived In Oak Hill WV, San Diego CA, Lewisburg WV Related To Edward Shieler, Jessica Shieler, Timothy Shieler, Emma Shieler Also known as Mary B Dailey Includes Address (7) Phone (5) Email (3) See Results Jessica B Lehman, 35 Resides in Summersville, WV Lived In Oak Hill WV, Canvas WV MrBallen you have covered a few West Virginia . OK. What actually happened? Cindy took matters into her own hands and sent a letter back to the sender with a photo of her husband and his family. With me, John Lucich, criminal investigator, president of E Forensics. Timothy E Shieler is in Mary family. Your email address will not be published. A West Virginia senior in high school, a softball player -- she calls herself Tallhotblond on line -- takes to the Internet. Why not, Eleanor? By continuing to use our site, you consent to the placement of cookies on your browser and agree to the terms of our Privacy Policy. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: to an 18-year-old. Revealed: Victim of Canadian porn star cannibal is Chinese New Jersey woman stunned to discover homeless victim of 'I'm going to be late. Montgomery pleaded guilty to Barrett's murder and was sentenced to 20-years. And when they knocked on the door and I opened the door, I knew something was bad. This is my husband. That almost gave me a heart attack. Tallhotblond set in motion a chain of events, the natural result of which had to be murder, and she knew it. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: "Tom, stop! UNIDENTIFIED MALE: "So it`s time for Tommy to be put to rest." Now, John Phillips, these two adults, a 45-year-old and a 46-year-old Sunday school teacher, they don`t care that they`re playing a teen? "She sends me a text message and says, she hates me you should be put in jail for this," he told "20/20.". The comments below have not been moderated. She has also lived in Rainelle, West Virginia. The Dignity Memorial brand name is used to identify a network of licensed funeral, cremation and cemetery providers that include affiliates of Service Corporation International, 1929 Allen Parkway, Houston, Texas. He felt flattered that an attractive 18-year old was interested in connecting with him. GRACE: worked together. BARRETT: Well, we were gone for the weekend. What -- how did he strike you? We used something else. Mary Shieler also pursued an education -- she took classes at a community college in West Virginia. cemeteries found within miles of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list. ELEANOR ODOM: would have a lot -- yes, Dr. Bethany would have a lot to say about that. Tallhotblond, told Brian that Thomas A.K.A. Discover the meaning and history behind your last name and get a sense of identity and discover who you are and where you come from. And this young cadet here? She was just looking to have some fun and the reason she kept talking to Montgomery was because she didn`t want him to talk to real teenagers, and do to real teenagers what she didn`t -- you know, she didn`t want him to do. Born on Jan. 22, 1939, in West Virginia to Harry and Mary Shieler, Jerry later moved to Hayward, CA. El, and not only is she being Tallhotblond, she`s using pictures of her daughter. Only much later did it emerge that she was really a middle-aged woman named Mary Shieler. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: "Wish you were nude." Whatever. MarineSniper was 46-year old Thomas Montgomery, a married father of two. She also used photographs of her daughter working as a lifeguard, so she could share bathing suit photos with Thomas and incite his lust. : The Dangers of Online Dating, John Martin Hill Involved in $80k Online Romance Scam, How Did R. Prophet Become a Catfish Victim? It`s not true." Research genealogy for Wilbur T Shieler of West Virginia, as well as other members of the Shieler family, on Ancestry. In March 2006, Montgomery told "20/20" one of his daughters was using his computer when Jessi happened to instant message him. Have you been talking to someone online who claims to be working on an oil rig? We know all about getting text messages, but how do police go back and obtain, for instance, chat room transcripts? There are no volunteers for this cemetery. Born on September 8, 1938 in Beckwith,. Although any sane, caring mother would have given up the ruse once Thomas was exposed and thought twice, Mary still pretended to be tallhotblond. ELEANOR ODOM, PROSECUTOR: Yes, Nancy. The two met online in May 2005. I was addicted to it," he said. Found more than one record for entered Email, You need to confirm this account before you can sign in. You have chosen this person to be their own family member. They wanted to have fun. Was there any way to have saved the victim in this case, Brian Barrett? To 18 years old.